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Thursday, October 31, 2019
Our Successes
Our Successes
The trail riding season is winding down for the year. Of course, we will still be riding whenever we can, but it gets harder with the weather. Rain, snow, high rivers, extreme cold, ice, frozen rivers--it gets tough this time of year. For Shari, it is even tougher because she has to deal with the early sunset.
We have accomplished so much this year. Thirteen was our lucky number. Bella, Dante and Cole all turned thirteen this year.
For Bella, thirteen is the year she matured. Sure, she still has some "Bella moments," but there are far less than there used to be. This year, Shari has been able to ride more regularly, and that had really helped Bella. Her biggest accomplishment was learning to allow other horses to lead. She never wanted to follow in the past. If a horse got ahead of her, she would blast past. We have been working on training her to follow for years--letting other horses take the lead at a walk. Over time, she got better and better. This year, she started to let other horses lead at a trot. Usually, is is Starry in the lead.
That is the next big success. Starry is leading whenever we want him to, and it isn't hard for Kevin to get him to take the lead. Sometimes, he has to circle Starry first, but often they just march right into the lead. We no longer have to fuss to put him in the lead like we had to in the past. It is fantastic!
Ellen has got Dante crossing the first river crossing like a dream. I will never stop appreciating the way he walks right down the bank and crosses the water without a whole lot of fussing. Sometimes there is no fussing at all! They are working on the other river crossings to make them as good as the first one.
Ellen has learned a very important thing this year--she has learned to let Dante be a horse. Horses spook, make mistakes and sometimes misunderstand us. Ellen has realized that she was expecting too much from Dante--and when there was a hiccup, she blew it all out of proportion in her mind--and would get so disappointed. Now she is letting Dante be a horse. If he spooks at something--that is normal--not a crisis. The best thing about Dante is if something frightens him, he gets over it really fast. Now, Ellen is doing the same thing.
Ellen spent a lot of time in the last few months working on her riding while on trail. It is something we all know we should do--but it is hard to focus on our own equitation when there is so much else to focus on out on the trail. When Ellen rode Ranger, she always posted his trot. Dante's trot is so much different--it is very easy to sit. Ellen never learned to ride a sitting trot, before. She has been trying new things and adjusting here and there. I saw them riding in the arena--and honestly, Dante never trotted so well and so consistent. She said it was hard work, but it was hard work that paid off--big time.
And then there is Cole. What did Cole and I learn--slowness! We were working on it last year, so it isn't anything new. What is amazing is how well he did this year. We want to be able to trot as slow as Dante so we can ride together. I would position him behind Dante as we trotted. Sometimes Dante trotted so slow that I thought it was physically impossible for Cole to match his speed. Well, guess what? He can do it. With a lot of praise and some well-timed clicks, he learned to slow his trot down with only light contact on the reins. I can even sit the trot if I want to.
When the 4 of us go out for a ride, often Starry is in the lead with Bella close behind. Way back, Dante trots his slow trot with Cole following him. A year ago, I would have said this would be impossible Sometimes I feel like I am in the twilight zone.
It wasn't easy to get to this place, but we are here, and it is a good place to be.
The trail riding season is winding down for the year. Of course, we will still be riding whenever we can, but it gets harder with the weather. Rain, snow, high rivers, extreme cold, ice, frozen rivers--it gets tough this time of year. For Shari, it is even tougher because she has to deal with the early sunset.
We have accomplished so much this year. Thirteen was our lucky number. Bella, Dante and Cole all turned thirteen this year.
For Bella, thirteen is the year she matured. Sure, she still has some "Bella moments," but there are far less than there used to be. This year, Shari has been able to ride more regularly, and that had really helped Bella. Her biggest accomplishment was learning to allow other horses to lead. She never wanted to follow in the past. If a horse got ahead of her, she would blast past. We have been working on training her to follow for years--letting other horses take the lead at a walk. Over time, she got better and better. This year, she started to let other horses lead at a trot. Usually, is is Starry in the lead.
That is the next big success. Starry is leading whenever we want him to, and it isn't hard for Kevin to get him to take the lead. Sometimes, he has to circle Starry first, but often they just march right into the lead. We no longer have to fuss to put him in the lead like we had to in the past. It is fantastic!
Ellen has got Dante crossing the first river crossing like a dream. I will never stop appreciating the way he walks right down the bank and crosses the water without a whole lot of fussing. Sometimes there is no fussing at all! They are working on the other river crossings to make them as good as the first one.
Ellen has learned a very important thing this year--she has learned to let Dante be a horse. Horses spook, make mistakes and sometimes misunderstand us. Ellen has realized that she was expecting too much from Dante--and when there was a hiccup, she blew it all out of proportion in her mind--and would get so disappointed. Now she is letting Dante be a horse. If he spooks at something--that is normal--not a crisis. The best thing about Dante is if something frightens him, he gets over it really fast. Now, Ellen is doing the same thing.
Ellen spent a lot of time in the last few months working on her riding while on trail. It is something we all know we should do--but it is hard to focus on our own equitation when there is so much else to focus on out on the trail. When Ellen rode Ranger, she always posted his trot. Dante's trot is so much different--it is very easy to sit. Ellen never learned to ride a sitting trot, before. She has been trying new things and adjusting here and there. I saw them riding in the arena--and honestly, Dante never trotted so well and so consistent. She said it was hard work, but it was hard work that paid off--big time.
And then there is Cole. What did Cole and I learn--slowness! We were working on it last year, so it isn't anything new. What is amazing is how well he did this year. We want to be able to trot as slow as Dante so we can ride together. I would position him behind Dante as we trotted. Sometimes Dante trotted so slow that I thought it was physically impossible for Cole to match his speed. Well, guess what? He can do it. With a lot of praise and some well-timed clicks, he learned to slow his trot down with only light contact on the reins. I can even sit the trot if I want to.
When the 4 of us go out for a ride, often Starry is in the lead with Bella close behind. Way back, Dante trots his slow trot with Cole following him. A year ago, I would have said this would be impossible Sometimes I feel like I am in the twilight zone.
It wasn't easy to get to this place, but we are here, and it is a good place to be.
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Monday, October 21, 2019
All Our Ducks in a Row
All Our Ducks in a Row
Ellen, Shari and I were out for a ride on a perfect October morning. We did a lot of trotting and Ellen even did some cantering to keep up with us. Everything was going great. Though Ellen was nervous about the second river crossing, (for no good reason, since Dante has been crossing it so much better,) Dante crossed it very well. He was a little slow initially stepping into the water, but after that, he walked steadily across.
We rode on the trail on the other side for a while, turned around and came back to the river. Ellen was nervous, again. The previous day, Dante rushed up the river bank. He only trotted, and she got him stopped in a reasonable amount of time. Knowing he might do it again, she only needed to be prepared.
Bella crossed first. There was a group of 5 cute, little mallard ducks just downstream. When they saw Bella, they floated away.
Cole crossed next. I saw the ducks had turned around and were coming back.
Ellen got Dante down the river bank without him grabbing something to eat--her biggest problem right now. When they got to the river's edge, she saw the ducks. She felt they were the size of turkeys, and they would take off as she tried to cross. Maybe they would even attack. They looked vicious.
I reassured her they wouldn't. They weren't that close to her, and when Bella approached them, they only floated away. They were probably migrators and were too tired to do much. The ducks were just floating in one place; watching Ellen and Dante.
Ellen was nervous, and as usual, if Dante senses her nervousness, he turns into a statue. He wouldn't budge. He just stared at the ducks as they stared at him. She couldn't get him to step into the water--and she really didn't want him too, either.
Shari decided to help. She brought Bella back into the water and scared the ducks. They floated away. She turned Bella around and headed up the bank. Bella charged up the bank. Cole saw and panicked. As he spun away, I just kept him spinning until he was facing Bella once again. He immediately settled down. We looked over at the ducks just to see them floating back to their favorite spot. They were there to watch the show. Dante remained frozen in place. Ellen wanted to cross on the ford. I didn't offer to go back across to go with her.
Shari decided to try again. The ducks floated downstream, and Bella tried trotting up the river bank. Cole didn't get scared this time--he just watched. This was a wonderful training experience for Cole!
The ducks started to return, but they didn't get as close this time. Dante was still watching them. We were yelling out encouragement to Ellen. I told her to try to turn him. She turned his head, but the rest of him wouldn't budge--but I think it was enough to break his duck fixation. She asked him to cross in a more assertive manner, and he finally took a step into the water! We knew the rest would be easy. The first few step were slow, but soon the ducks were forgotten. (At least they were forgotten by us. I'm sure Ellen was still thinking of them.)
Once they got to the other side, Ellen just told him to walk up the bank, and he did. We were all so relieved. Ellen was very shaken by the whole experience. Bella was feeling very empowered. She got to herd ducks. Cole was bored. We walked a little ways for Bella, Ellen and Dante to calm down. The rest of the ride was without incident.
I hope those ducks were migrators, and they plan to head south; really soon.
Ellen, Shari and I were out for a ride on a perfect October morning. We did a lot of trotting and Ellen even did some cantering to keep up with us. Everything was going great. Though Ellen was nervous about the second river crossing, (for no good reason, since Dante has been crossing it so much better,) Dante crossed it very well. He was a little slow initially stepping into the water, but after that, he walked steadily across.
We rode on the trail on the other side for a while, turned around and came back to the river. Ellen was nervous, again. The previous day, Dante rushed up the river bank. He only trotted, and she got him stopped in a reasonable amount of time. Knowing he might do it again, she only needed to be prepared.
Bella crossed first. There was a group of 5 cute, little mallard ducks just downstream. When they saw Bella, they floated away.
Cole crossed next. I saw the ducks had turned around and were coming back.
Ellen got Dante down the river bank without him grabbing something to eat--her biggest problem right now. When they got to the river's edge, she saw the ducks. She felt they were the size of turkeys, and they would take off as she tried to cross. Maybe they would even attack. They looked vicious.
I reassured her they wouldn't. They weren't that close to her, and when Bella approached them, they only floated away. They were probably migrators and were too tired to do much. The ducks were just floating in one place; watching Ellen and Dante.
Ellen was nervous, and as usual, if Dante senses her nervousness, he turns into a statue. He wouldn't budge. He just stared at the ducks as they stared at him. She couldn't get him to step into the water--and she really didn't want him too, either.
Shari decided to help. She brought Bella back into the water and scared the ducks. They floated away. She turned Bella around and headed up the bank. Bella charged up the bank. Cole saw and panicked. As he spun away, I just kept him spinning until he was facing Bella once again. He immediately settled down. We looked over at the ducks just to see them floating back to their favorite spot. They were there to watch the show. Dante remained frozen in place. Ellen wanted to cross on the ford. I didn't offer to go back across to go with her.
Shari decided to try again. The ducks floated downstream, and Bella tried trotting up the river bank. Cole didn't get scared this time--he just watched. This was a wonderful training experience for Cole!
The ducks started to return, but they didn't get as close this time. Dante was still watching them. We were yelling out encouragement to Ellen. I told her to try to turn him. She turned his head, but the rest of him wouldn't budge--but I think it was enough to break his duck fixation. She asked him to cross in a more assertive manner, and he finally took a step into the water! We knew the rest would be easy. The first few step were slow, but soon the ducks were forgotten. (At least they were forgotten by us. I'm sure Ellen was still thinking of them.)
Once they got to the other side, Ellen just told him to walk up the bank, and he did. We were all so relieved. Ellen was very shaken by the whole experience. Bella was feeling very empowered. She got to herd ducks. Cole was bored. We walked a little ways for Bella, Ellen and Dante to calm down. The rest of the ride was without incident.
I hope those ducks were migrators, and they plan to head south; really soon.
Monday, October 14, 2019
A Tricky Ride
A Tricky Ride
I was out on a ride with my sister, the other day. Of course, I was on Cole, and she was on Dante. She was a bit more nervous than she has been because the weather was very brisk--normal for October, but it had been a very warm month up until this point. Most horses get a little friskier in the cooler weather. She was afraid Dante would misbehave.
We rode out to the second river, and though a tiny bit faster, Dante was just fine. Ellen was all set to turn around there and go home, but it was such a pretty day, I convinced her to cross the river and do another section of trail. Dante has been crossing at that crossing like a champ for weeks, now. It really was no big deal at all.
I crossed first and waited for her on the other side. (Ever since the time that Cole slipped and fell in the water--causing Starry to fall, too, we cross one at a time.) About half way across the river, Dante started to rush. He was still walking, but really, really fast. It scared Ellen, but she did get him to walk before he got to the other side of the water.
We trotted to the bottom of the hill and walked up. I was about half way up when I heard Ellen trying to stop Dante--he tried running up the hill. It wouldn't be such a big deal on an ordinary hill, but this hill is very rutted. We have to guide the horses in between the ruts. Ellen's biggest worry was that Dante would cause Cole to run up the hill, too. Though Cole wouldn't stop for me, he did stay at a walk. Dante stopped well before he reached Cole, but that shook Ellen up, too.
We did some trotting and walking up there, turned around and headed towards home. She was very nervous about crossing the river, but Dante did it in flying colors; making us both proud. Once on the other side, we heard sirens. A park ranger's car was coming our way; fast. Ellen leaped off Dante; startling him, and he inadvertently stepped on her foot--really bad. Dante's dancing caused Cole to spook, too. Then again, he may have spooked at the ranger's car flying over the ford with the lights and siren going. Dante didn't like the looks of that, either. It took a bit for them to settle down.
Ellen figured, where there was one, there would be two, so she decided to lead until after the second one. Sure enough, a couple minutes later another patrol car came tearing down the street. It was too far away for them to see, but the sirens didn't scare them at all.
Ellen decided to get back on Dante. She likes to mount with a mounting block or log, but if none is convenient, if I get off and hold her stirrup, she can mount fine. I have no trouble mounting from the ground--Cole is short. I helped her get into the saddle and was about to climb aboard Cole when we heard loud engines. We saw a parade of hot rods and old cars coming our way! Ellen hopped off, and I stayed on the ground.
It was the old car rally. We have had trouble with them every year, and I think I write about it each time. Last time, Dante was fine, Kevin took Starry right up to the street to watch them--and Cole had a meltdown. I thought our ride was ruined.
We weren't close to the street, so we led them. Where the trail did get close, we stopped them and waited for that cluster to go by. Cole would immediately park out when he was waiting. I was clicking him for it, and when he thought the clicks weren't coming fast enough, he would bow. We worked our way down the trail this way. At no time did either horse misbehave! I was so proud of Cole for redeeming himself.
We made it home safe and sound.
The next day, Ellen was all stressed about crossing the river where Dante rushed. I am glad to say, Dante was fine. When Ellen replayed the incident in her mind, she realized that she had gotten nervous in the water and started squeezing her legs. She did the same on the hill. Since she has been working with Dante to just move off with a light squeeze of the legs, we think Dante was doing just what he thought she wanted him to do! He was being a good boy. Ellen was more careful with her legs, and all went well.
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